Friday, August 20, 2010

How to convince a married man to leave his wife for someone else?

I've been dating a married man with three children for three years. I want him to choose me over his ***** wife. I deserve him, not her. So how do I convince him to kick her out of our lives?How to convince a married man to leave his wife for someone else?
You again?





Forget it. If he hasn't left her by now, he's not going to. He doesn't sound like much of a prize anyway.





Do you really want a cheater?How to convince a married man to leave his wife for someone else?
He is never going to leave his wife and kids, wake up and smell the coffee. You are a beautiful woman and you would be a catch for any guy,therefore leave him. MM just like to have their cake and eat it too. You should know that this is not a man with the values a woman looks for, having had several affairs in the past. Don't put yourself down, walk with your head high and walk away, I firmly believe all of us will one day find what we are looking for from someone who will cherish us and give us 100% of his time as we deserve no less.
Im sorry, but HOW DO YOU SOUND? Like really? If he has not chose you yet, then that apparently means that he still has feelings for his wife. What your doing is stupid and ridiculous. If he really wanted you, he would have BEEN left his wife. So you must be something on the side. Not the real deal. Ya get me? He wants you, but he also wants his wife. He is a player, and you came into THEIR lives. So how can you kick her out ';your'; lives when you came into their lives first. I don't know what you should do, but I would just end it and try to find someone who is single, and have your own man. Not preying on someone else's.
Are you being serious. My advice would be break it off with him and find a guy whos single, your hurting yourself and his wife. Plus even if he was to split from his wife and marry you he may do the same to you further down the line as he has to his wife. Seriously he's not worth it and you could do better.
Ok home wrecker stay out of their marriage.And he's using you like the person said.Girls like you are nothing much.He is just using you for sex.and is only trying to make you feel special when you're not really.He loved hs wife before you.He still loves her if He's still with her.Even if he is being unfaithful.His wife will find out and you will be int trouble by her and her family.Sure he deserves a real home wrecker.One thing you guys got in common you're both easy.Have fun dying alone by 80.
umm are you dumb? he's not going to leave his wife. if you've been doing this for 3 years, and he hasn't done it yet, he's not going to. it's sad enought that he has 3 children and is married, and cheating on his wife. be the bigger person and stand up and doing something good.
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And the only thing that needs to be ';kicked'; are hoebags like yourself. And where do you get off calling his wife a *****? She had him first, you should have ****** off. How stupid can you be.





Back off and get your own man before his wife and kids rips you apart.
well my advice is let it go if he hasnt left her yet then he never will..u deserve better not somone who will not give u ur place....plus he has children..and remember what he did to her in the means of cheating he will do to you in the future...ive seen it in my own family :( good luck!
thats horrible, you need to leave him and go find a single man. He is obviously not the man for you otherwise he wouldn't already be married.
Sorry, you don't. If he doesn't make that decision for himself, by himself he will just leave you later for her.
If he was ever going to choose you over her, he would have already.


He's trying to have his cake and eat it too.
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Get off of Yahoo! Answers before you give us all herpes you whore.
honestly if he was gonna leave her he would. the fact that this has gone on 3 yrs means your just his side piece. oh by the way your a homewrecker
have freaky sex with him, until you are all he can think of... :D

Can a wife love her husband while getting advice from a matrimonial lawyer?

If a wife starts visiting a matrimonial lawyer to get advise on how to secure her rights, can she still be considered in love with her husband?





How likely is it that she still loves him?


Or is she staying married to him for reasons other than love?Can a wife love her husband while getting advice from a matrimonial lawyer?
Yes of course she loves her husband. There could be another reason to visit to the matrimonial lawyer. Being a wife I can say that a wife never wish bad for her husband. She loves her husband so much. Do'nt doubt on her love. Keep her in his faith. Faith is the second name of love. Keep faith on each other. Rest you can see at





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Has she explained why she is going to the lawyer? That would make this much easier to answer. Usually couple both go to lawyers of any kind. Ask question, if she wont answer you, then something is up.
You can still love someone, but not the treatment that they give you.Who knows why she stays because no one knows the details but her.
she can be in love but be unhappy, maybe she loves him but just can't take how he is treating her or maybe she wants better. there are to many factors... maybe she doesn't love him.. hard to say with out details.
She can love him....maybe she feels he doesn't love her, and she is protecting herself...

How often should I do something nice for my wife?

I used to do nice things all the time, but she came to expect it and then nothing I did seemed to have any worth to her. Now I don't do anything, but every once in a blue moon I do something nice.


How often should I do something nice for my wife?How often should I do something nice for my wife?
At least once a month. When was the last time she did something nice for you? Do you take it for granted?How often should I do something nice for my wife?
It sounds like you want to do something really nice to make-up for the other times. I agree that you need to do little things that add up daily, but if she doesn't appreciate anything, there is something wrong there. I love anything my husband does for me even if it's laundry or cooking so I can take a break. Take her out to eat and talk with her about the issue of gift giving. My husband loves the fact that for Valentine's, I want to each give each other a card and then go in on something nice together (1-800-Flowers). We also go on a shopping spree together for Christmas and it's so much fun. We only buy what we truly want and don't waste any money.
i can understand how you feel. she should continue to show her appreciation to you. Maybe you could explain to her how you feel. It may be hard for her to understand but maybe you could say that just like she need to be continually told how good of a wife she is and a hard worker (just an example) you need to be shown appreciation for the sweet things that you do for her. being a girl i think i would like it more than once in a blue moon. even if it was once a month.
As often as you can. I'm not saying it should all be material (not so!!). Sure, flowers every once in awhile are nice, but women need more than gifts. Yeah, doing the dishes every once in awhile is FANTASTIC! But many women do not come to expect this. :)





The main thing you should do (and the nicest of all) is to always tell her you love her, give her your support and your ears.
Define nice. You can do small things every day that are ';nice'; and it doesn't put you out all that much. Try do do at least one little thing for her every day, if not a few, plan some big ones every couple weeks and look for times to do nice things for her on the spot.
I think maybe once a week because if you do it everyday eventually it will not be appreciated since she'll expect it. But, if you do it weekly or biweekly it will always be a nice thing.and she would appreciate it even more.
besides working to bring home the money that pays the mortgage, food bills, heat/ac, electric, vehicles. oh yeah, and helping the kids with their homework, baths, and bedtime stories so she can relax.


as often as she does nice things for you +1.
never, they won't appreciate it anyway. Every time I tried to be nice, I was always told in so many ways that it wasn't good enough. SO I QUIT. It's just another way to get an argument started and get your ego slammed.


Womens mental process is a laugh.
As often as you can. I would say daily. It doesn't have to be big each time. Leave a post-it on the mirror saying you love her etc...... Be creative and have fun with it.
you don't have to try to do something nice. Even cleaning the house for her or helping her in anything is doing something nice.
Depends on you. I would do it as often as you feel. There are not set rules of how often. If she has done something extra for you, then thank her.
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Every day. She should be nice to you every day too. It doesn't have to be a big event.





Edited to add: Eg. my husband already got a ';nice'; point this morning by handing me my towel over the top of the shower door so I could dry off where it was warm. That took all of 5 seconds.
Once a day. Every day. All day long.
3 times a year...Christmas, Birthday, %26amp; Valentines Day.
I would concentrate more on being nice to her rather than doing things nice for her.
everyday...best way to keep peace in your home!
everyday, if you want a happy marriage
Keep doing what your doing. to much seems like a coverup type thing but once in a blue moon keeps them on their toes.
just do one of her jobs for her so she doesn't have to do it like the laundry
well I see what your problem is here...you spoiled her...my bf think hes done the same with me...because when we first started going out he used to do all kinds of romatic things and took me out to really nice places..then it slowed down and it made me supicious..like i thought he was loosing interest in the relatioship..but I changed too i think nag a little bit and complain or talk more open about his mistakes which i never did when we started going out...(like he used to be perfect)





But we know we both changed but our love hasnt and it gets stronger every year...so we would go out to dinner like everyfriday...or if im feeling sad or bored he would do somehting special for me..like bring flowers and things like that...romance should always be alive and you should try to do nice things for each other all the time...even the little things count..maybe have a talk with her and let her know that you love her, if you dont do a lot of nice things for her isnt because you dont love her, but tell her its because you want it to be special...





im sure if you explain she'll be happy to know how you feel..





good luck, and i think you are a good husband for making the effort.
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  • How long can a man be unemployed before his wife looses respect for him and divorces him?

    Since women don't respect a man who can't support them, what is the average time that a man can be unemployed before his wife looses respect for him and decides to divorce him?





    In my experience it was immediately after the man lost his job. But I assume all women won't divorce that quickly.How long can a man be unemployed before his wife looses respect for him and divorces him?
    I was laid-off twice in 2008, the last time in early October. I have been trying to find a job everyday since. One week ago my gf broke up with me because she said, ';I can't take it anymore, I go to work everyday, and you do nothing';. Kinda funny that about 4 hours after she broke up with me, I was offered a decent job. And no, there will not be a reunion. If you'll kick me when I'm down, I don't need you when it's good.How long can a man be unemployed before his wife looses respect for him and divorces him?
    I strongly disagree with your statement. I am on my second marriage-neither of my husbands supported me. I am perfectly capable of supporting myself and my children, which I did without any help for six years before I remarried.





    A marriage is supposed to be a partnership. Personally, I would not divorce a man just because he was unemployed. During my first marriage, I supported our family many times while my husband was not able to work. Yes, we divorced but not because he wasn't employed. We had more serious issues.





    I'm not saying I would sit back and do it all if my husband was purposely loafing around and doing nothing. If his unemployment was due to a job loss; I'd be supportive and try to help him find a job.
    It all depends, doesn't it or rather shouldn't it, if the man is trying to find another one? And was the loss of employment once or several times, and being his fault? A lot depends and for me, it was 10 years of fearing him walk in the door saying those awful words, ';I got fired today for fighting.'; I can't remember how many jobs he went through, but finally, I had no respect for him and the love just seem to evaporate. We have children together, and after 25 more years, the kids tell me he is still the same way; a new job every few months. Always wonder how he gets hired with such a terrible work record? He's a plumber, so maybe there's a shortage? Anyway, I don't hold any ill will toward him but always wished he would have grown up.
    My BF didn't bother looking for a job for 2 years. We lived together and I paid for all of the food. At times, I paid for everything and he would cook and clean. I left him not because he was unemployed, but because he was always depressed and angry every day about how he lost his job. I tried everything to cheer him up...and kick him in the *ss and tell him he can't afford the luxury of moping around. Eventually, his ATTITUDE drove me away and I had to leave him. We were never married but I loved him and really believed in him. I still love him.





    For any woman to leave a man who lost his job is really messed up. But some men are really lazy and arrogant. ';I think the woman should support the man';, my ex had said once.





    A woman truly in love will put up with just about anything. It could be that your neighbor's husband lost his 20th job or something. You assume correctly, all women will not divorce that quickly.
    A lot depends on both people and upon the strength of the marriage. If a woman refuses to work herself and she expects 100% of the income to come from him, then she may leave him if she won't get off her butt and find a job herself to help out the household.





    My husband and I were both gainfully employed. Within one year of the wedding, he lost his job. It took him about 5 months to find another job. It was tight and stressful, but I told him he would find something good and we would be OK. I never lost hope and I never left his side. We just had to tighten our belts and stay hopeful. Am I a saint. Absolutely not. It was part of my promise to him when we got married.
    If the guy is sitting on his back side not even trying to help the household, fair enough! Get rid of the guy really quick! All women don't ';just loose respect'; for their partner for not having a job. It really depends on what type of morals etc, she has been brought up with, and if he is genuine about looking for a job.
    if he doesnt go looking for a job within about 24 hrs of being laid off or losing his job is about right. society has no idea the burden men face not only at work but at home also. if the man is working but not making enough they are mad and if he doesnt work at all he is screwed lol but it is what it is. it is our job to be the provider and when we cant it makes them dettached from us.
    Just because the husband lost his job that his wife divorced him? This sounds most terrible. Where is the love and commitments? Do you think wives stay with their husbands just for the salaries they earn? I sure hope not.
    Just depends on how strong the relationship is with your wife. If your wife loves you, then she should support you through thick and thin.





    Best of luck to you.
    I think it depends on the strength of the woman. Honestly, a wife shouldn't divorce her husband because he lost his job. Obviously she did not take her vows seriously.
    About 1/10th the amount of time they would allow themselves to be unemployed.
    Depends how often her female friends are making remarks about her supporting a deadbeat.
    Depends on the relationship.... but if you're honestly trying and not just being a sorry husband, then I think she will/should support you.
    A month, tops.
    I have more respect for a man that can spell and use proper grammar than a man with or without a job.

    How do I cook something for my lovely wife?

    Are there any Filipino people out there who know how to make Sans Rival? I want to make it for my beautiful wife. I know that it is not easy!How do I cook something for my lovely wife?
    Sans Rival a very yummy layered dessert. Each layer is topped with a nice amount of icing like filling and cashews on top. This recipe is definitely for cashew lovers out there!





    INGREDIENTS


    12 egg whites


    2 cups white sugar


    1 teaspoon cream of tartar


    2 cups chopped cashews, toasted





    1 pound butter, softened


    12 egg yolks


    2 cups white sugar


    1 cup water


    2 tablespoons dark rum





    2 cups chopped cashews, toasted








    DIRECTIONS





    Preheat oven to 300 degrees F (150 degrees C). Line 4 - 8x12 inch pans with parchment paper.





    In a large glass or metal mixing bowl, beat egg whites until foamy. Sprinkle with cream of tartar. Gradually add 2 cups white sugar, continuing to beat until stiff peaks form. Fold in 2 cups chopped nuts. Divide meringue between the 4 pans, and spread evenly to edges.





    Bake in preheated oven for 30 minutes, or until light golden brown. Remove the meringue from the baking pans while still hot; allow to cool. When cool, trim edges so that all 4 meringue layers are uniformly shaped. Set aside.





    To make buttercream filling: In a large bowl, Beat butter until light and fluffy. In a separate large bowl, whip egg yolks until thick and lemon colored.





    Meanwhile, in a saucepan, combine 2 cups sugar and 1 cup water. Bring to a boil, and heat to 270 to 290 degrees F (132 to 143 degrees C), or until a small amount of syrup dropped into cold water forms hard but pliable threads. Add the hot syrup in a thin stream to the beaten egg yolks, while beating at high speed. Beat in the whipped butter until smooth. Beat in rum.





    On one layer of meringue, spread approximately 1/4 of the buttercream evenly to edges. Repeat layers until all is used.





    Smooth sides with spatula. Sprinkle top with 2 cups chopped cashews. Freeze until solid. To serve, cut 1 inch slices from the frozen dessert.





    Note:


    Almonds or hazelnuts can be used in this recipe instead of cashews, and the buttercream can be flavored with any flavor of liqueur, coffee powder, or fruit jam.How do I cook something for my lovely wife?
    good luck! :)

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    What is she doing out of the kitchen in the first place??

    How to make a user account for my wife in Windows 7 where she can acces to all my folders ?

    My wife and I would like to have different accounts in our computer mainly because we want to personalize the appearance of the desk top etc. However, we would like each other to have access to each others folders. Is this possible when you create different user accounts ? Your help will be much appreciated.Thank you.How to make a user account for my wife in Windows 7 where she can acces to all my folders ?
    Go to the folder in your account, right click, and choose share with... Then choose your wife's account.How to make a user account for my wife in Windows 7 where she can acces to all my folders ?
    Go to the folder in your account, right click, and choose share with... Then choose your wife's account under specific people option.

    My wife ans I is planning a vacation to Iran?

    My wife ans I is planning a vacation to Iran?





    How are people there?





    Are they racism tords whites?





    My wife ans I is planning a vacation to Iran?
    we are white too MR.stop insulting US.


    My wife ans I is planning a vacation to Iran?
    -- We ARE white !





    -- to C,D1,x : 360 Degrees means a Circle , it means going back at the same point u were, You must use 180 degrees !





    -- Iranians are know for their Hospitality , And they Have Rich Culture , I'm Sure you would be Most Welcomed here!





    There would be no Racism Toward Foreigners , But Since Iran is not yet an open Country for tourism u must prepare yourself and your Wife for Accepting its rules during your Stay, For Example Women Must Wear Hijab while they are in Public !





    -- Iran Has so many Wonderfull Places to visit ,I'm Sure you Wold Enjoy your Stay.
    i shud say that this is going to be one of the decisions that u will never regret in ur life.iran is a wonderful country with amazing places in it.iranian people are well known for their hospitality.they never care about the skin colour coz they r muslims n u can never find racism about skinn colours in iran.i am ready to gurantee u that u will enjoy ur stay in iran.but if u have specific questions in mind u can email me n i will answer.hope it helped.
    Hi!


    I'm an Iranian and I live in Iran too.I really happy to answer these kinds of questions about my country!


    It's really great that you're coming here but we should be realistic.





    Iran's society has many different kinds of people I can divide them(or us!) in two groups one is people who support their country and government and others are people who are completely against it!


    I don't want to explain too much details so I think you understand that in Iran you will(if you come) face 2 groups which one of them is bad with america and one is not.


    BUT in my opinion Iranian people(mostly)are very kind and you will see a good hospitalize from them!


    I'm completely sure that Iranian people do like tourist.


    another thing iranian don't discriminate other skin colors!


    I think you should come and see what there is here in Iran instead of T.V and other mass meida and be sure no body won't hurt you!



    Dear firend


    be sure Iran is not the one which they explain to you . try , see , then you will tell them that they are wrong .


    A question has come to my mind , that is :


    '; when you are not aware of Iranian color , and can not


    recognize it from african countury , why do you want


    to come in Great Persia ? ';
    ppl are great.and 360 degrees different from what u think.


    no,they are not racism.why?


    and persian phoenix is right,they are white themself (but just persians not all of them).



    Beautiful, no racism towards black or white. A beautiful place everyone should visit!
    the people are every kind their...


    but its can da scary going their.....


    dont know all i know the peole are very kind
    wtf??!!


    Do U think iranians are black???!!or maybe green?!!!!!!!!!!!! :-D


    hey be sure they r white %26amp; would never ever hurt U honey.
    Of all places, why Iran? There are hundreds of countries to choose from. If you want to visit the Middle East, try Qatar or the UAE.

    My wife and I manage an apartment complex. What are the first steps to starting our own prop mngmt company?

    I'll be working on my contractors license in the next year and my wife and I will be taking classes for various certifications in the industry. What should be the first steps to getting started?





    How much capital would it take? One phone line, home office, website, etc.?My wife and I manage an apartment complex. What are the first steps to starting our own prop mngmt company?
    In my state, property managers must be licensed real estate brokers. Check with your state to see if there is similar licensing requirement. It shouldn't take much capital at all since there is little overhead. The most expensive thing would be advertising. You can get a 1-800, 877, 866 number easily and cheap and it links to whatever phone number you choose. You can get a free website. There will be added costs if you do the work yourself, but unless you're doing major renovations, even that won't be too much. Advertising will be your major expense, especially if there if a lot of competition. and insurance.My wife and I manage an apartment complex. What are the first steps to starting our own prop mngmt company?
    Check with County Clerk or the office of State Comptroller to see what requirements are for doing that. I would get the local law enforcement to do background checks on all applicants to keep the ';riff-raff';out.


    Also,as a security measure,I'd offer a free apartment to a (single) police officer or deputy sheriff to live on the premises to keep the peace.

    What will happen to my daughters if my wife never lets them wear a bikini?

    In our neighborhood, I'd estimate that 80% of teenage girls wear bikinis at the local pool and beach. My wife is opposed to bikinis, saying that they are immodest, and she will not let my daughters wear one. As they get older, how will this affect them?What will happen to my daughters if my wife never lets them wear a bikini?
    Thats not gonna effect them. I envy them, my mom has me wear bikinis and bikinis are, like, made to fall off in the water. I'd rather wear a cute one-piece.


    Dude you should get them a bathing suit like the one from the Notebook. Its from the 1940s so you know its modest but kick butt.What will happen to my daughters if my wife never lets them wear a bikini?
    there are plenty of really cute one peice's out there. But it really shouldn't affect them in a bad way. If anything and they really want to show off there body to the boys then they will probably rebel and do it anyways. They might buy there own two piece and sneak it out and change when they get to where ever they are going. Here are a couple pics of different bathing suits. And maybe you could even show them to your wife and your girls and get their opinion too and work something out. Good Luck!!!!





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    I am sixteen years old so maybe I can help.


    I understand how people see bikinis immodest and thats ok.


    I think bikinis will either boost your daughters selfconfidence or lower it. Its all is based on what age they are and how they feel about their own bodies.





    I dont feel as if wearing a bikini is wrong or immodest.


    There are other ways to be modest.


    Like the way you act and the way you treat yourself and people.


    It shouldn't be based on what your wear.





    I think you, your wife, and your childeren should come together and reason as one.
    there won't be any huge negative effect on them, don't worry. however, you don't want your daughters to start getting really annoyed or angry with their mom. and im sure when they go out shopping with friends they buy bikinis and wear them when your wife doesn't see them. trust me, if they really want to wear bikinis but aren't allowed, they will find a way around it. but you don't want your daughters to become secretive or do (other) things behind your back.


    i think your wife and daughters should make a compromise. maybe they should be allowed to wear bikinis that aren't too showy and not string.
    This depends on how old your daughters are, I think that it wouldnt affect them that much, they could also try tankinis? where the top covers more than a bikini would. Or you could suggest to your wife that they wear a sarong, which is a material that you put round your waist, kind of like a skirt.


    Hope that helps!
    They will grow up fine, maybe modest or maybe total rebels, who knows.


    It's not really a big deal, like think about all the kids who have parents who dont smoke, tell their kids never to smoke, and once they hit high school they smoke.


    I dont know, I dont think you should worry.
    They will have no confidence wearing simple stuff (tank tops, shorts, etc) they could be shy while they're shopping for undergarments. Maybe even be shy to guys because they have no confidence!
    It shouldn't. No one should care. This is NOT a life-altering issue.
    I think they'll be okay. Or they could have low self esteem.
    this sounds harsh but probably be made fun of. lack of friends/boyfriends.
    it might make them feel uncomfortable but u can find really cute one pieces i think that it is fine....
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  • How long does it take to get green card for my wife?

    We are Canadian citizens and planning to move on L1 visa to USA as I have a job offer from the same company currently I am working for in Canada. Now my wife's sister is US Citizen. If she sponsor my wife after we go on L1 visa, how long does it take to get her green card? Thank you all who answersHow long does it take to get green card for my wife?
    Watch out for marriage fraud!





    -Be very careful when marrying an illegal immigrant. It can be very difficult to know if they are with you or the green card.


    -Never co-sign a credit card/car with a lover or spouse.


    -Avoid mixing finances and legal issues together.





    I wouldn't get married but it's your choice. Consider yourself warned!How long does it take to get green card for my wife?
    If you get an L1A visa you can then apply for an EB13 visa which means you can both have a green card in about 6 months.
    Getting a Green card through the wifes sister will take about 14 years





    Why not use the L visa ... could be very quick if its an L-1A

    How do I not go home to my wife smelling like beer?

    I usually have 2 or 3 beers with the guys after work and it drives my wife crazy, thing is a lot of projects get thrown my way during these ';bonding'; sessions.How do I not go home to my wife smelling like beer?
    don tdrink go to the '; bonding sessions'; and talk order coke if you really feel compelled to drink order one and drink slowly, chew gun and use tag colonHow do I not go home to my wife smelling like beer?
    Vodka drinks have much LESS of a scent, it's why Vodka was invented during Prohibition.





    Orbit gum is a great smelling gum and good cover too.


    Also have some cologne spray, but make sure it's something you wear all the time or it's supiscious all by itself.
    I think I would be looking for an alternative drink. Try ginger ale, really. Besides, keeping an absolutely clear head will be the advantage.
    Hey Dude!


    My kids tell me that sucking on a penny will take any alcohol smell out of your mouth. Have not tried it myself, but I have also heard other people say that too. Try it!
    Don't lie to her. When you get home do something for her like clean the kitchen or bring home dinner. If you have kids, give her a break when you get home, put the kids to bed yourself so she can relax. The';bonding'; sessions shouldn't be a problem for her if she knows her husband will be coming home with a good attitude. Your biggest mistake will be to hide it or lie.
    Keep one of those travel toothbrushes and some toothpaste in your car or just some mouth wash. I started doing that in high school so I could brush my teeth when I went to a girls house. The premise is the same, you're just concealing beer smell.
    Try just nursing one beer if you feel you have to have a beer. But really the best is to just avoid the beer altogether.
    Drink bailey's on ice, or a coffee with irish cream, and follow it up with a hot chocolate.
    Dont drink the beer? I dunno, just a thought.
    Don't drink ! alcohol is excreted in breath thus it's not an easy task to hide that u have been drinking !
    try drinking only one, and then a soda
    Coffee, mints, chocolate.

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    My wife is the assistant to the Director at the center. I am a seasonal gardener for the community garden. We both provide services free of charge. The rate set by the non-profit organization is $14.50 per hour. How do we claim this using our Turbo Tax instrument?My wife and I do volunteer work at a charitable organization. We would like to use our time for tax credit. Ho
    You cannot claim for the work you contribute to a charitable organization. You can claim mileage at $.14 per mile for traveling to an from the site. You can claim the fair market value of any materials or supplies you contribute. That's it. Sorry.My wife and I do volunteer work at a charitable organization. We would like to use our time for tax credit. Ho
    I do not think that is legal.

    My wife ans I is planning a vacation to Iran?

    My wife ans I is planning a vacation to Iran?





    How are people there?





    Are they racism tords whites?My wife ans I is planning a vacation to Iran?
    Hospitable as all get-out. It would blow your mind if you've never left America or your tour group. Take in some poetry, if you can.My wife ans I is planning a vacation to Iran?
    Hi my friend, I'm Iranian and I live in Iran. The only problem you'll have traveling to Iran is that your wife has to wear scarf in public places. And that's something forced by the government. Iranian people are very hospital and kind to foreigners, they may charge you more for stuff science you are a foreigner but where doesn't? ;) If you've seen on TV that Iranians burn American flags or something like that it's just the Iranian government (which by the way most of Iranians do not agree with) and the media, not me nor any of my friends have ever burned an American flag or participated in such foolish demonstrative parades, I myself love America and Americans. It's all about politics man...





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    P.S. (to Coronetblue) It's Iraq which is being invaded by America not Iran!
    Hello dear


    I'm an iranian and I'm speaking from iran


    I don't know what are you and your people are thinking about Iran ?


    and its no problem that we are not familiar with other countries


    there is no racism in iran in any aspect.


    You, your people and all of world human beings are welcome in iran even more than in their countries.


    there are many reason that make your tour in iran the best moments at your life.


    We are looking for your attendance and we hope you best moment.


    If you decide to come here just let me know about its date.


    I send information and other things you need for have a better trip


    I Hope you better life, better moments, better friends and the best trips
    Dear friend each year many tourists visit Iran and when I talk to them most of them admit that they had the best moments of their life in Iran .Don't feel afraid of talking about your nationality.They are kind people who really respect foreigners especially Americans .What you see in your media about Iran and Iranian people is intended to show a dark image of Iranian people. But the fact is something else .





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    They may be racist but not because you are white, but because you are American. And with good reason too. They are now living under the threat of you Americans invading their country and killing their people. I'd be 'racist' too against any race that invaded my country.





    Just buy a few 'I luv Canada' shirts, never admit you're from the States and you will be a lot safer. If your holiday is before the US elections, even better.
    Hi amigo!


    I'm sure the way of thinkings just returns to things that media wants u to do!Don't worry about ur trip...Iranian people are not beasts(!)they're just human beings,maybe kinder than the others!!They are not racism with no doubt but also they respect foreigners so much(maybe becuz they think that people from other countries are nicer than them)...


    I've been in Iran sometime and I promise U to have a v. v. very cool vacation there...most of people there like us cuz they are not agree with their goverment,you have nothing to worry about.


    I also have an Iranian friend .her ID is '; karen_tfh ';...U can contact her if u want!





    GOOD LUCK...HAVE A NICE TIME!
    Hahahahahah, I can do this too!





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    I mean, I just turned off 89% of my brain, and came up with a question remarkably similair to yours.

    How can a wife make her estranged husband chose to either divorce her or end affair with other woman?

    Married 15yrs with kids but dating OW over 2yrs. Estranged husband not living in marital home since affair was discovered. Husband says: wife can divorce him if she wants to and he is fine with dating the ow and ';he'; has no plans to divorce wife but he will sign if served. He also doesn't want to end relationship with this other woman? WTF gives?How can a wife make her estranged husband chose to either divorce her or end affair with other woman?
    A wife can't force her husband to love her-especially her estranged one. The question should be, why is she even putting up with this unnecessary mess?





    Let's break it down. He wants to be with the other woman-no if's, and's or but's about it. He won't file for divorce from his wife, or even make the effort to fix his marriage, but if served then he WILL sign. What gives?...He thinks he's a player and is apparently getting his way! He's living the luxury life in his world...He has a wife who after 2yrs of separating hasn't filed for divorce-so he's basically being allowed to have his fun elsewhere, but still has the option to come home if he chooses. He has zero consequences and he's milking it for all its worth.





    His wife needs to divorce him and fast. She needs to collect on that spousal support and child support. Then she needs to move on with her life, and focus on the well being of the kids. I mean seriously, who's thinking about them? Obviously he doesn't care for his family because a real man would put his family first. If he didn't want to be in the marriage anymore he should've simply divorced his wife, situate the children making sure they would be able to get through their parents divorcing, THEN, have fun on his own terms. Instead, he chose to not only hurt the woman he spent 15 yrs with, but his children, and another female's life because she's dating a man that she'll never have a future with considering he can't even divorce his wife! He's simply an irresponsible man whose priorities are nowhere but onto his own selfish self. He doesn't deserve to be called a father for what he's putting his kids through and he by no means is the ideal example of what a husband or possible husband should be. His ex-wife is only hurting herself and the kids. If it's been this way for 2yrs, there's no way that things can be solved w/out major therapy.





    If she really needs some hope besides the fact that she's proving to be a strong independant mother by divorcing his ***...I can guarantee once he see's the reality of his actions I'm pretty sure he won't be far from camping outside the house asking for forgiveness.How can a wife make her estranged husband chose to either divorce her or end affair with other woman?
    Woman you need to stop talking and make it happen.Its clear that he will not change, so instead of stressing yourself, leave him. Why would you take his s%26amp;^% anyway, what holds you back , I mean technically you are separated so take the step and dump his a$$. Have some dignity will ya. The kids will be fine trust me. Focus on yourself and move on will ya...
    He does not want to pay for the divorce, that's the bottom line. Get the divorce and get it over with.
    So just file for divorce... he does not even need to sign... it takes longer but you should just leave him...
    Wow. What a dick.

    How can I find out what species of parrot my wife bought?

    My wife bought 2 green parrots. I would like to know what species they are. They are green with a small red bunch of feathers just above the nose, or beak. The seller told us that the male has a slightly larger red mark than the female. I looked around on the net for similar picks of parrots but so far haven't found any. They cuddle alot. How can I find out what kind they are? I'll take a pic of them later and post it somewhere with the link. I have looked at wikipedia but they're information is flakey on the subject.How can I find out what species of parrot my wife bought?
    Need more info. How big are they? Do they have a tiny tiny bit of yellow by the eyes? could be red lored? will post more after pics.





    could it be a red crowned parrot?


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    red-lored amazon


    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Red-lored_P鈥?/a>How can I find out what species of parrot my wife bought?
    Very pretty! Half moon conures, I'd say.
    Is it a cherry head or mitred Conure?





    Put those words in Google and search my images and see what comes up.
    You need ask the people, she got them from. (But it sounds like possible conures.)
    Try the Lexicon of Parrots (online). What is their size (in inches) and weight (in grams). Is the green color solid? What do the beaks look like (shape)?
    why don't you ask the people she bought them from?
    You should REALLY know what kind of bird you're getting before you get it - otherwise you risk being totally unprepared to feed it and care for it properly, as well as provide it proper mental stimulation and care based on their species-specific needs.





    You've gotten some good suggestions so far, and I believe maybe it is the conure because conures are less expensive, and most people wouldn't purchase an expensive parrot without at least knowing its species.
    Those are definately half moon conures. You cant tell male from female unless they have been sexed. You might find them under orange fronted conures. They are similar to the Peach Fronted Conure. Very cute birds! Hope this helps!
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  • What do men look for in women when choosing a wife?

    It seems in the dating scene, men look for physical appearance to be the most important quality. How do you get from only looking at appearance to more in-depth qualities? What qualities to you think makes a good wife?What do men look for in women when choosing a wife?
    If someone is worrying about looks. They need to find someone else who doesn't care about looks. In a society where people see other people by the thousands every single day, yet don't talk to one another. You get that type of thing. All guys are attracted to women that are pleasing to the eye. But not all guys end up dating the girl of their dreams, looks wise.





    What do guys look for in a wife, well they look for someone they can have fun with. Someone who they can trust, and someone that shows them attention, and makes them feel like they are a man. Of course, everyone is different. Humans are complicated creatures. Its best to go out and meet as many people as you can, you will learn real quick which ones are interested in looks, and which ones aren't. But you have to be willing to play the game if you want to meet the right person. Lower your guard a bit, don't put to much of your heart into it. Don't expect too much from the start, don't get attached, and just simply meet guys! Same thing goes for everyone else out there, no matter what you are into, guys girls, both, whatever.





    There are plenty fish in the sea right? Well, sometimes you have to actually go fishing ;)What do men look for in women when choosing a wife?
    My best friend after 20 years.
    Loyalty,Honesty,Trust worthy, Loving and someone who likes and cares for me the person and NOT what i have in the BANK
    The classic answer is, ';A proper lady in the drawing room, a fantastic cook in the kitchen, and an absolute s1ut in the bedroom.
    Someone who is kind, patient, has a sophisticated sense of humor, is supportive, emotionally stable, cultured, and responsible. Those are the in depth qualities I would look for in a potential wife.
    1)Honest


    2)dependable


    3)Faithful


    4)Reliable


    5)Goal oriented


    6)Motherly


    7)Healthy


    8)Smart
    most butt not all look for a maid a cook and an a-- kisser the others look for honesty someone who will be there through thick and thin good times and bad someone they can love and someone who will return that love
    run it 4 is too young to answer this question. Men on the dating seen are often looking for sex, not love. It's easier to be rejected sex than love. Every man is different! If the man is a neo-nazi, he's going to look for a neo-nazi woman. Do you see what I'm getting at? Men want their women to reflect their values.


    The qualities I look for reflect my stance between being a little conservative, a little liberal. I want a woman who can cook and clean, and all that stuff, because I want my kids to have a good mother and role model. If I end up having a daughter though, I want her to be independent, assertive, and well-balanced. So my woman needs to have her own opinions, and to voice them. I need a woman who appreciates art, and not Nascar. One who drinks wine over beer, but can still throw back a couple brews. She needs to be tough but soft... Well-balanced. Looks are still pretty important, but they only last you so long.
    That she be a woman, and that she let u choose her as ur life partner?!? :)


    Frankly, if I don't KNOW her, i won't consider even of proposing, the looks may count initially, but then it all settles down to how u2 gel.
    They are looking for a sexy as hell self centered ****** to make their lives miserable, but give them good s e x and keep all their money when they finally come to their senses and divorce them.
    i know for a fact my husband was looking for a true solmate not just a hot chick and also i know he's not the only one, many men actually care for WHO you are
    well the main thing is not actually physics bt although every man want that her wife should be beautiful and sexy but here love for his man and her care for her husband matters a lot
    What ever we looking, we are not finding anyway. All people changes after about 6 months or year after wedding. So you have to start from scratch. Some guys are wanted girls to be more like their moms.
    Everything,but personality.
    i don't know what other men look for but i looked for a women that i could spend the rest of my life with.
    men can say that they want all sex and whatnot, but what matters down the road is what counts! i look for a woman who is consistent. what does that mean, you say? well, i think that a woman who can do things consistently, such as, budget money, maintain a job, and have a consistent mood(like the one i grew to love). a woman needs to be stable to support her husband if he fails at something. also, i think that women need more credit than they are given because its the women who are consistent that get my praise. one problem today is that women date to marry... just concentrate on dating to have aquaintances; marriage will find you! men are simple beasts and have simple thoughts... there probably is no way to get us to stop oggling your bodies. if by chance you find a man with that maturity, hold on to him as long as you can! there arent many of us men like that out there!
    as u said that men looks 4physical appearance n outlook in A women bt its nt important n nor gud u c never judge a girl 4m her outlook nor physical appearance bcoz this act lets u down so if u want to judge her u cn judge her 4m her thoughts the way she thinks n u nid to spend more time with her so that u will naturally come to know wat type of girl she is?by the way she walks,speaks wit ur freinds,by listening her cals quitely hw is communicating n by her manners?n also by her care even if ur nt payg much attention to her.ask her schedule?be very calm while ur examining her dnt let her know.n 1last step its final after u prapose her tel 1of ur friend to whom she havent met to prapose her at the same time if she start paying attention to him also she is of loose character type.n kip a crow eye on her to know abt her acts n ask her to introduce u with her friends.thats all.u will judge her easily from the way she acts n behaves with ur friends in afriendly way?or in an matured manner?
    men look for women that do some of the things that they ask for and for the women to not get angry for evrythng.
    Somebbody like their mother.
    A lot in the bedroom and cook in the kitchen ';women should be seen and not heard';

    How can my wife telecommute or work part-time from home?

    My wife is a stay-at-home mom with our five month old son -- certainly a handful. Still, we would like to try to supplement our household income by having her do some kind of part-time job (20 hours a week? 30 hours a week?) where she can telecommute or work from home. She might be overqualified, though -- could this be a problem? She has degrees from a top liberal arts college and an Ivy League school, and has worked as both a high school English teacher and psychological/guidance counselor. What types of opportunities are available to someone like her? What can she do? Thanks!How can my wife telecommute or work part-time from home?
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    How similar are you to your husband or wife?

    I'm wondering if a person is better off being married to someone who's almost exactly like them or if opposites attract holds true.





    I'm pretty reserved while my wife's extremely outspoken. I take a cautious approach and weigh out the pros and cons, my wife makes snap decisions.





    Seems to me that if 2 people think and act alike that there would be far less arguments and drama which is great. But that maybe it can get a little stale.





    Are you the opposite or similar to your husband or wife? How would you rate your marriage?How similar are you to your husband or wife?
    My husband and I are complete opposites. I don't mean there are a few things we are dissimilar in. I mean virtually EVERY single aspect of our personalities are opposite.





    He's subdued and pessimistic, I'm outgoing and optimistic.





    He is Republican, I'm Democratic.





    He likes fried/heavy/salty foods, I enjoy fresh vegetables and grilled foods, no salt.





    He loves sci-fi and futuristic adventure movies, I prefer dramas and comedies.





    He watches TV constantly, I can barely tolerate TV.





    He loves classic rock and metal only, I prefer country and pop. (Although I listen to classic rock, rap, etc.)





    He's a morning person, I'm an evening person.





    He loves the outdoors, yard-work, sunshine, etc., I prefer to be indoors doing indoors things!





    His idea of a vacation is relaxing in the great outdoors, doing nothing for days. I would rather do something exciting...NYC nightlife, roller coasters, speed boating...anything that requires huge amounts of energy.





    Almost literally I cannot think of a single thing that we share the same preferences in.





    However, even with all of the above being true, we get along. We do have arguments now and then, but we don't argue about the above stuff. We mostly argue because he needs little attention/interaction and I need a lot. (Which I suppose could be due to us being opposite in that aspect.)





    All of the rest of the stuff we completely compromise on. Chemically and sexually we are a match. There is definitely a fire when we're together. We share the same work ethic and goals, and of course we have our two children.





    I CANNOT imagine being married to someone else. Without him my teeter doesn't totter.How similar are you to your husband or wife?
    I'm not married but I have been with my bf for 4 years and we live together. We are the complete opposite. I am extremely outgoing, he is very reserved. I make spur of the moment decisions, he thinks about everything and weighs the pros and the cons. We are literally oil and vinegar. But thank God for that. He levels me out, and makes me realize things I would never realize. He is amazing. I don't think I would do well with someone just like me, actually it would drive me nuts. In this case I find Opposites attract and make a better couple.
    Strange as this may sound, they've found that people who have stayed in long term relationships tend to have very dissimilar gene sets for immune function. In some species, like wolves for example, the father, head of the pack, won't mate with his daughters when they reach maturity. They think this I because he can literally smell that his immune system is too similar to theirs.





    So, mother nature says opposites attract. And in the end, going against her rarely works out.
    My husband and I ,are total opposites..like day and night.he is more quiet and reserved and Iam very outspoken.But my husband makes snap decisions where i check things out more.Now this thursday we will be married 33 years,for me thats awesome.And you say arguments...woo hoo!! have we had our share and still do......because we see things differently.That my friend is what makes our life very interesting.The trick is you have to allow each other to be who they are!Int that why you fell in love?...you loved each others ways.So ..I would rate my marriage as a nine and a half..hee hee. so you guys better get a sense of humor...your going to need it!!
    there is no right or wrong answer to this i have seen opposites attract then i have seen opposites go so wrong .. i have seen alike work out good and alike work ,out bad it just depends like me and my ex hubby we were so opposites and we are divorced you have to be opposites with some common somewhere in there..
    My husband and I are similar in the way we approach our marriage, but that doesn't mean we have similar thoughts and beliefs.





    We just both know that our spouse is our other half so we consult each other, listen to each other and work together to ensure both our needs are met.
    We're similar in some things, different in others. This is how it should be. You should marry someone who has similar goals and lifestyle, but also someone who completes you in areas where you may be lacking.
    Opposite, and some days it makes me want to scream. We have been together for a long time so I guess it's like good and evil, opposites create balance.
    10/10 and totally opposites!





    I personally wouldn't like to be with someone that is similar to me.





    ''opposites attract''
    We have very similar beliefs, values, morals, and goals. We both pretty much enjoy the same things.
    I think it may depend on what the differences are.
    We are very much alike,,,


    yet we are looking at divorce


    pray 4us
    we are only similar in looks, we look good together. that is it. nothing else.
    At first i thought me and my husband were total opposites, but realized he has everything i lack n vice versa. For instances, she may make snap decisions and eventually make herself look like an idiot, but if you're there weighing the pros and cons you can tell her and she may learn from you. Any relationship is a learning experience. Sometimes you have to mess up and have someone show you where you where you went wrong. It's all about how well you fit together. I realized people who I like/loved who were the exactly the opposite got on my last nerve. I found them interesting because of their different qualities but those very things lead to distruction. It's just one of those things where you really have to get to know a person to see how well you fit. If you're not compatible you will not be willing to waste your time.

    What determines how much taxes my wife and I have to play back?

    By mistake I claimed married and 1. While my wife claimed married on 0. Is there any chance my goof would even out since my wife, who makes substantially more than me, has more taken out of her check?What determines how much taxes my wife and I have to play back?
    Hi!





    You should be okay.





    What you claim on your W-4 at work has no bearing on the tax return except that it tells the employer where to look on his chart to see what to withhold on your pay.





    Unless your income is very high or you had more than just your wages for income, you probably won't owe any more than was withheld and may even get a refund. It is hard to tell without exact figures.





    Hope this helps.





    Virginia Cunning, Enrolled Agent, Master Tax Advisor


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    **This advice was prepared based on our understanding of the tax law in effect at the time it was written as it applies to the facts that you provided.





    Click on my profile to read more.What determines how much taxes my wife and I have to play back?
    It could but is impossible to determine from your question.

    How to convince wife to have a baby?

    Wife has health issues that cause her to be on immuno-suppressants, and have less energy that most people (but can still function). I'd love for us to start a family, but she is concerned about not having the energy to keep up with the kid, finances, health, etc. My fear is if we wait for all these to be resolved we'll be too old. How can I convince her that we should have kids now, rather than waiting.How to convince wife to have a baby?
    do you have any idea what it takes to bring up a child it's already for a woman with no health problems imagine what your wife would have to be faced with, don't be so selfish and listen to what she is sayingHow to convince wife to have a baby?
    It is so sad that I know so many beautiful, caring, hardworking girls who want a family so bad but their husbands/boyfriends refuse to have kids. Most of them have just eventually given up and sacrificed their desire to have a family in order to make their boyfriends/husbands happy. It's a tough call. One one hand, you love this woman, you married her, and it isn't her fault she has medical issues. On the other hand, you will have to continue the rest of your life with her, sacrificing the life you wanted, and wondering what may have been. I have no real advice other than to just keep talking to her about it. Talk to your doctors. My mom had a similar medical problem that left her tired all the time but she had three children and did what she could.


    Your wife could have a child and take the early years of the child's life to be a stay at home mother. I don't know what your finances are like, but you don't have to be rich to live on one salary. My dad was a mechanic and my mom stayed at home. We weren't wealthy but we had everything we needed and we were happy - happier than a lot of my friends who had giant houses and daycare every day.


    Just talk to her about it, if she really doesn't want to then you need to decide what you want out of your life and whether it would be unfair to her to keep living with her knowing you will be unhappy and resent your marriage later on in life.
    You're missing something here.





    You're wife isn't saying no out of vanity, or uncertainty. Her health is the issue. If she takes those drugs while pregnant, they can adversely effect the baby. If she doesn't, she could die.





    Consider for a moment how you would deal with a new born if she died during or after the birth?





    Are you more interested in parenting, than keeping her in your life?





    I chose to become a mother at 31. When i was younger I might have had more energy, but emotionally I was ready to parent later. And i did not have a health issue.





    Listen to her. Your current thinking is encouraging her to risk her life for your happiness...and that is a cruel thing to do to someone if you love them.
    You can't convince her - and I think that you're being extremely unfair putting this pressure onto her when she already has health problems!





    It's a woman's natural response to want children and I commend her for fighting this natural urge to take into account her health and yours and any babies welfare.





    You should support her decision - it will not have been an easy one for her to make.
    If your wife doesn't want to have children, you need to respect this decision and let it go. Both people must be on board for this - and as a married woman who does not want kids, I can see her hesitation. Leave her alone.
    Perhaps you can suggest adoption so it dosent put a strain on her health. Raising kids is the hardest job in the world and you would not want her to resent you or the child for doing something she is not ready to do.
    How old are you, first of all?





    Second, maybe you should think about her health first before anything else. That should be more important to you than rushing her to have a baby...which is VERY exhausting and hard on the body.
    you can't convince her, it's not like buying a new car; it is forever, both of you make an appointment with her doctor and both of you talk to him/her about it
    You don't. How would you like her to convince you to have your balls removed. If you push her into it, she will most likely end up with post-natal depression, or worse, resenting you and the child.
    Try to improvise your thoughts and your mind .Let go of your EGO and pride and think differently .Have faith in her and what she needs is there in abundance .There is no need to be possessive or selfish !
    My husband ';convinced'; me to have a birth-control failure baby in an already tenuous situation. Five years later I left him with the whole mess. Be careful what you try to force on another.
    if she can't fully care for the kids, she needs to know that you'll be there to help her.
    Leave her alone. She'll resent you if you make her do this when she's not ready.

    How do you feel when you wife is checked out by other men?

    How do men feel when their wives are checked out by other men?





    Do they get jealous or feel proud? Do they think they have to work on the relationship more because the wife would have some options?





    I don't try to have this happen intentionally (like wear mini skirts or heels or anything) but I've noticed if we are out and it happens, my husband is always very quiet and usually a lot nicer and more respectful for awhile.How do you feel when you wife is checked out by other men?
    Doesn't bother me. I get to go home with her and he doesn't.How do you feel when you wife is checked out by other men?
    my fiance feels proud, he's not really the jealous type. He got a big kick out of it last year when this guy came back to my work around closing time and asked if I was seeing anyone and wanted to go out for a drink.





    It's flattering, for both my fiance and myself :-)
    my husband says its a compliment and he likes to see other men check me out but when they go to hootin and hollerin and eye f%#@in me then it pisses him off
    I asked my husband and he says he feels lucky and glad he's the one taking me home.
    All guys look..Enjoy it while you can. Now get on with your life...
    happy that men think shes hot.
    you should consider cuckolding him, him very soon...he is ripe
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  • How do I deal with my wife and her dog?

    Our second dog (3 months old Calerhula cur) keeps going pee and poo in the house. Yes I keep her in a crate. But my wife keeps letting her out. Last night I got up in the middle of the night because the puppy was crying, to let her out. My Schnauzer ran outside and the puppy ran in the living room and peed before I could grap her. When I did grap her by the back of the neck she cried. I then brought outside . My wife is absolutely livet with me. Because of my behavor. She says that I make the dog scared. I asked her what she would do? No answer. Other then tell her no and put her outside. The dog is wrecking my house and my marrage. The stupit dog cause us to fight all the time.How do I deal with my wife and her dog?
    My hubby and I have our most horrible arguements about the dog. Same exact situation. He expects me to discipline the dog just like he would and I don't. He's very frustrated that the dog isn't trained according to what he thinks is appropriate, and frustrated with me that I just don't set my mind to do it and then do it. With our last dog I actually took him to obedience class and everything to show my hubby how I was trying hard, but it did no good, too little too late into the cycle. The dog then becomes a huge source of arguing and resentment, and ultimately it's the dog that suffers. We ended up giving our last dog to a nice family and then got a new dog...guess what, the same exact thing is happening with the new dog. I think I'm a moron for thinking things will change. I'm still not that great of a disciplinarian, and hubby still expects me to be, cycle starting all over again.How do I deal with my wife and her dog?
    Crate train the puppy. If you have to pick her up and carry her outside or use a leash.





    Start obedience classes.
    Crate the wife up.
    Have you tried putting your wife in the kennel? LOL Someone in your household needs to take control of the puppy, or it will become an unruly dog and we might see you on the TV show ';It is me or the Dog';. It is not helpful to punish a dog unless you catch it in the act. Dogs have no memory. They live in the present. I'm not sure how big your dog is, but it might be a good idea to carry it outdoors when you take her out of the kennel. If she doesn't go potty, put her back in the kennel. Puppies have very small bladders. They have to go after sleeping, eating, playing -- well you get the idea. They physically cannot hold it. Don't punish the dog other than to say ';NO'; if you catch her squatting or sniffing like he has to go. Choose a word for going potty. Say the word when she goes, ';good dog';, and give her a reward. I use dog treats. In dog training, reward the behavior you want, try to ignore bad behavior. Make sure you don't reward what you don't want (like jumping up). I highly recommend enrolling her in a dog training class.
    I seen this question and I was ready to let you have it for not being more considerate but did I ever change my mind. I am now eating crow and I don't like it.


    Your wife needs to realize that the dog needs to be trained the right way because the dog is getting mixed signals. It doesn't know which way to 'go'. Have you tried the new pads they have out for training dogs? I got some and my dog basically trained herself. There is some kind of scent that attracts the dog to them. Your wife is right in the fact that you are making the dog scared but at this point I can see why. Is there a professional trainer in the area?





    What you may try and you probably already have, is to put the dog out to ''go'; first thing in the morning, right after it eats or plays and watch it when it drinks it may give signals it needs to go. Take away the water a couple hours 1 or 2 before bedtime so it won't have anything in its system to get out. You need to tell the dog when it has to go and not let the dog tell you.





    There is another excellent answer posted to a question kinda like this one and I have posted the link to it. Good luck, and I am sorry for judging to soon. The crow is terrible.
    Ok, hate to say it, but you are at fault.





    When you let the puppy out of the crate you should have carried it outside or put it on a lead and given it no opportunity to toilet in the house.





    Yes it is a puppy but it's not a new born and you should not be picking up by the neck.





    What you have done is repremanded the puppy physically. By scaring the puppy after a toileting accident all you're doing is making toilet training more difficult as the dog will be too scared to toilet in front of you.





    The puppy is both of your responsibilities, you need to sit down and put some rules in place that you will both follow so that you do not fight about it.





    When puppy wakes up, after its' eaten and after playing it will need to go the toilet. You shouldn't take your eyes off the dog because any opportunity you give the dog to toilet in the house re-enforces the behaviour and therefore makes it more difficult to toilet train.





    Going forward, if the dog has an accident in the house and you see it happening, give a firm NO, do not raise your voice, do not run at the dog, take the dog outside to finish its' business, this is why it is important not to scare the dog otherwise it will not finish its' business outside. Once it starts to toilet in the right spot, you calmly say ';Good Toilet';, once the dog has finished, lay on the praise big time and have a play with the puppy to show that the yard is also a fun place to be. Now, when the puppy cries overnight in the crate and you take it out to the toilet, praise the dog but do not play with it as you want it to go back to sleep.





    If the dog has an accident in the house that you did NOT see, you can NOT repremand the dog, simply clean it up and get over it and hit your yourself for not watching the dog. Make sure you clean it up with a special 'Accident' Spray you can get from your pet store, this will remove the scent the dog can smell but you can't, this indicates to the dog that it should toilet there again.





    If you have not been using this spray, I reccomend you get your carpets cleaned so you can start out fresh.





    If I were you, I would apologise to your wife for your behaviour and say you want to sit down and plan out how the puppy should be trained so your both working on the same page.





    The training must be 100% consistent for the dog to understand.





    Side note: Your dog has a small bladder and may not be reliably house trained until it is 4-6 months of age and this is why you must never take your eye off the dog and take it into the yard very regularily to toilet.





    The dog must NOT be crated 24/7, the dog should only be crated when it sleeps, ignore the idiot who THINKS they are a Behaviourist who said that.





    All the best.
    Have you ever considered dog training? Your dog is not stupid. It is obvious that your dog doesn't understand what you want it to do. That is not the dog's fault, but the human's for not being able to make it clear to the dog. Instead of fighting with your wife about it, why don't you both march down to the Petsmart and sign up for classes?
    If she isn't in a kennel, at least try putting up a baby gate so she can't get in the living room at night.
    Who's house is it? If you are that upset with dealing with the dog, make your wife have sole responsibility. Sometimes the less said the better
    You did not hurt the dog by grabing the nape of the neck. The mother does that to carry them. They cry in protest not because it hurts, but mom pays no attention to that.





    Second, puppy needs to be in the crate until she is housetrained.

    How do I resolve holiday destinations with or without my wife?

    My wife is obsessed with Africa and never wants to set foot in Iceland because she finds it boring. I'm obsessed with Iceland and have no desire to go to Africa. Holidays are coming up and I'm completely cool with going spending separate holidays but she's not. Any suggestions on how to resolve this?How do I resolve holiday destinations with or without my wife?
    Throw out Africa. Throw out Iceland. You are married. You should choose your marriage first. Do some research and figure out what you both would like to do together. Think about what you both would like to experience. If your desires differ, that is fine. There has got to be a place in the world that offers something different for the both of you in the same spot. It might work to find a travel agent to help you find that spot. You should focus on having a nice holiday with your wife, not where you want to be. Because if where you want to be is not where she is, its no good.How do I resolve holiday destinations with or without my wife?
    Is there some other place that both of you could enjoy, even though it wouldn't be your #1 favorite? Or could you both make some compromises for each other so that both of you can get your dream vacation sooner or later, for example by going together to one of them this time and the other one next time?
    I think you should call a qualified travel agent and she/he will be able to find a solution for both of you. The reason I say this.the travel agent I used Was more like a therapist for me and my boyfriend, because we were arguing over a destination for 3 whole months. to the point where i was honestly ready to move out. :) I randomly called a travel agent. I never used one before she is in Hollywood California but the girl knows the whole world like the back of her hand


    So she basically put us n conference call and asked each one of us our likes and dislikes.


    She booked us on a 12 day cruise from Venice Italy all the way to Russia and back and we fell in lve all over again :)


    Seriously You should just contact travel agent . if you wanna use her her name is


    Dina and I just know her email address





    dinamtravel@aol.com





    Good luck :)

    How do you deal with a wife who needs a parent more than a husband?

    Been married 15 years with two kids. My wife has always been very dependent and cannot make decisions. I thought she would grow out of it but never did and now we're separated. I don't know anything else to do to get her to be a wife and not another child of mine. Marriage is sexless. Divorce is immenent I just wondered if anyone out there, especially women, could explain this to me?How do you deal with a wife who needs a parent more than a husband?
    You need to ask yourself why you waited 15 years and didn't work on her being more independent right off the bat. Sometimes when being dependent on a guy the guy tends to think his way or no way. I surely hope you were not controlling with her. It takes two to be in a marriage and it sounds to me that you allowed her to be the way that she is and all of the sudden poof you are not allowing it anymore. Did you find someone else and she dumped you and now you are having second thoughts of her being back in your life.





    15 years of her and all of the sudden this is bothering you hmmmm.How do you deal with a wife who needs a parent more than a husband?
    Sorry to hear about your family's situation. Some women are raised with familial/cultural/religious expectations that, as females, they do not have personal agency and should look to a male family member (father or husband, usually) to make all decisions and deal with the outside world on their behalf. Some people simply have more retiring personalities. Others may have been treated like princes or princesses during their childhood and given a great deal of attention and possessions, but very little responsibility. This type of person may find adulthood,marriage and parenthood demanding and frightening, and look to the spouse/partner to shield him/her from the ';big, bad world';. Sometimes a quieter person may feel cowed by a more outspoken partner and relinquish responsibility because asserting himself/herself leads to conflict/confrontation with the partner.





    Counselling is a good way to begin to address the problematic behaviour and its underlying reasons. There are a variety of pyschological approaches available. The best approach is the one that works for the individual(s) concerned.





    It's possible that a combination of the above reasons or an entirely different reason is at the root of your wife's behaviour. Have you asked her?
    Can you just continue to be the leader of the family? I'm not really sure of specific ways you mean when you say she is dependent.





    I am dependent on my husband, and he usually makes all the big decisions with my input and considering me. That is because he is the head of our family, not because I'm stupid or something.





    Do you think your wife just wants you to be the leader? If that is the case, you are very lucky man this day and age. Most women try to take control and men end up not respecting themselves and not getting any respect.





    So, I guess I'm just not sure what the problem is with that.





    About the sex, have you talked to her about it, NOT in anger and in the moment?
    It sounds like she is insecure, she will not change until she fixes that issue, I have one too, but I know that she cannot make a decision without me because she is to afraid of making the wrong one and disappointing me and the kids, by the way, I am going to get a divorce as well and no sex as well.





    So to all you give me a thumbs down, thanks for letting me know that my feeling once again do not matter.
    Choose better if there is a next time. You hit the nail on the head when you said ';my wife has always been very dependent and cannot make decisions. I thought she would grow out of it.';





    You knew this co-dependent aspect about her while you were dating and you not only chose to turn a blind eye to some pretty significant red flags during your courtship by getting married to her, you ignored them again and made babies with her.





    Next time, date with your eyes wide open to observe the others' strengths and weaknesses and to break it off with the people who have some aspect about them that it makes that person not a great match for you.





    Next time...pay attention to those red flags and choose better. Your brain and not your penis should make the decision.





    ((Hugs))
    Some women just like to get things handed to them and have everything given to them and do nothing.





    She won't ever grow up.





    I truly believe that when people are set in there ways they won't change.





    Raise the kids the best you can and separate yourself from her.
    You married her for the whole deal. Was she always needy or did you find it cute back then? You enabled her.





    I am sorry that it's happened. We all make mistakes. People only change if they want to. You can't control it. Divorce could be the best thing or it could be the worst thing. But it's your life and you need to do what it's in your best interest given the circumstances. I don't think you should change to suit her and I don't think she should change to suit you. It should be something both people are willing to do. It sounds like the love has dissipated. ??
    She was probably emotionally damaged by her parents and is seeking out that parental care that she never got, you can't change her only she can, and she has to want to, I think counseling would be the best thing whether it is couples therapy or individual.
    if she needs a daddy be one to her why is this a big deal my girl has always called me daddy and i let her know what to do and when to do it we are both happy and it works she is the best of my kids
    When you finalize the divorce she will find another man to support her financially and tell her what to do.





    Was she a SAHM the whole time you were married?
    MAKE HER WORK!!!!!!!! MAKE HER WORK!!!!!!!! MAKE HER WORK!!!!!!!!!





    TELL HER TO GO TO WORK!!!!!!

    How wife should file if I filed head of household?

    I filed Head of household because we were considered unmarried due to living apart for over a year and I paid all of finances for home and dependents. What I need to know is how my wife should file now. Single or married separate.How wife should file if I filed head of household?
    NOT enough info.


    You may only file HOH IF you were married and lived apart the year, and have dependents. If you have no dependents, you MUST file MFJ or MFS, same for Wife. Need to get divorced to change your fiing status. How you file does not control how wife files.How wife should file if I filed head of household?
    Did your dependent children live with YOU? If so, then you can file as HoH. If they lived with her, you can NOT file as HoH no matter how much support you provided. If she paid more than half of the cost of maintaining her home and has a qualifying dependent living with her then she can file as HoH as well. Anyone who cannot file as HoH must file Married Filing Separately.
    Married filing separate
    married filing separate

    My wife is pregnant and is having a hard time smoking. She has cut back how do I help her fully quit?

    I have quit to support her, provided literature and even tried not to be so overly nagging about it. I need help and so does my wife and unborn child.My wife is pregnant and is having a hard time smoking. She has cut back how do I help her fully quit?
    Yikes.


    I don't know how I feel about hypnosis, but I have to tell you, if she tries that, it may do the trick.


    My aunt said it was the only think that helped her.My wife is pregnant and is having a hard time smoking. She has cut back how do I help her fully quit?
    I am not going to lie, I am having a hard time quitting smoking too.... My husband and I have picked a quit date, which is 4 weeks from the 19th and I know I need to go through with it because I don't want to hurt the baby. Plus I don't want my baby to be around smoke or anything, I don't want to have it on my clothes or hair either even if I wash my hands it will still be on me and I don't want my baby exposed to that. I tried calling our states local quit line and they have a counseling thing set up for when I begin to quit.





    I also asked my doctor about it hoping he would tell me something horrible about smoking and make me really want to quit and he did the complete opposite of that he said, ';Well smoking doesn't do any good, but it doesn't really do any harm.'; I don't know if I really trust that but I don't know. That definitely didn't help with my motivation. I don't want to be like all of my aunts who still smoke and did while they were pregnant too.... What better time to quit than now? I am having a hard time remembering why, but it is getting better with time. Any time is a good time to stop, don't let her stress over it too much and try not to stress over it either. Stress wont help the situation at all.
    How far along is she? I found out right around 5 weeks, cut back immediately %26amp; quit completely around 7 or 8 weeks. I kept giving myself another day to smoke one more. She just has to realize her mind is making her smoke %26amp; she has to be stronger than her mind (which is tough). The two bits of info that I always think about when I get the urge to smoke %26amp; that got me to quit was that smoking causes SIDS. Could you imagine carrying your baby full term, falling in love w/ them while pregnant %26amp; again when they are born %26amp; then losing them to SIDS b/c of your smoking? %26amp; the other thing is that when you take a drag, the smoke fills the womb %26amp; the baby can cough. The thought of me making my baby cough was disgusting to me %26amp; I cannot imagine doing it to him. I thought I'd never be able to go a minute w/out thinking about smoking, it consumed my every thought, but that eventually stops. Even now, 10 weeks later I have my weak days %26amp; moments, but you get through them. Oh %26amp; you should be commended for quitting, my husband didn't. I'm okay w/ that but I would like him to quit at some point.
    if you live in the uk, go to any pharmacist's normally the well known ones , and theres a scheme called ';giving up for baby'; i joined when i was 2 months pregnant.. the way it works is they start you on the high patch and every week you go to the chemist sit down and they check to see if you have been smoking but also if you pass you get 拢12.50 a week 拢50 pound a month to spend at asda's and another supermarket.. you receive that payment every month and you get great support from the person running the scheme. im 32 weeks preg now and haven't had a cig.. and the money ive been earning from it comes in handy for bits and bobs for baby coming.. its alot to understand what ive told you but def get her to go to the chemist its worth it and works .. xx
    It's very important that you get her to quit. Every cigarette she smoke cuts off the baby oxygen. Pregnant woman who smoke their baby's come out premature. and can develop lung problems. It's your responsibility and hers. You see her with a cigarette. Throw it away. Throw all of them away. Please because with a unhealthy mom is a unhealthy baby.
    it took my mothers spine surgeon that her first fusions failed because she was smoking and he wouldn't fix the damage until she quite. perhaps the hospital or doctor can arrange through a maternity ward where there are infants are suffering the effects of cigs during pregnancy. or any substance which can have negative effects on the child. perhaps seeing first hand would help give her that extra push.





    good luck, try all you can but the change has and commitment has to come from her
    ';Smoking cigarettes (or marijuana) while you're pregnant can harm your fetus.





    We have a doctor to explains the risks of smoking while you pregnant in this detailed video:


    http://pregnancy.healthguru.com/content/鈥?/a>
    My Dr. told me not to quit. Quitting causes stress and will harm the


    baby. So I cut back to 5-7 a day. The result. 3 pregnancies, 3 big


    and healthy babies. All because I listened to my Dr. His advice


    benefited my children.
    You are a good person to be so concerned about this.





    Truth is, there is not a lot more you can do.


    You can't help a person, who does not want to help themselves.





    Keep persisting though, over-nagging is probably going to be a lot better than a smoking pregnant woman.
    i smoked b4 getting pregnant. as soon as i found out, i quit. why put ur unborn child in danger? Its very selfish to keep smoking. i had a friend who also smoked, and her dr. actually told her to cut down but not quit because cutting cold turkey can actually harm the baby, dont know if thats true, maybe she just said that so no one would judge her. ask ur dr. about it.
    maybe she can get some counselling to help her quit, tell her the effects that it could have on your unborn child. I was a heavy smoker and as soon as i found out i was pregnant i started to cut back drastically and than 2 weeks later i quit fully. Good LUck
    Maybe you could provide her with some articles of what smoking does to your unborn child, although many smokers have healthy babies, some dont...so maybe once she sees how very serious it is she will quit, good luck and keep encouraging her.
    Thats very bad ...coz it cuts the oxygen supply to the baby ..i would strongly suggest - Hypnosis is the best way to help you to quit smoking quickly, easily and inexpensively.
    Distract yourself.
    A friend of mine ate hard candy any time she wanted to smoke..... Maybe that could help?
    I'm right there with her.
    look for professional help..





    Good luck to you and your wife..

    My wife is from Germany and she would like to go back. How can I go about getting a job there?

    I was in the military and was in germany for 4 1/2 years and moved back to the states. My wife is ready to go back for a while. How can I go about getting a job back over there.My wife is from Germany and she would like to go back. How can I go about getting a job there?
    Research on line or go to the library...just a thought. Good luck.
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  • What is the shortest immigration process to bring wife in US?

    I am US citizen, and my wife is in overseas. Our marriage is registered in her home country. What is the shortest way to bring her here with me? How long it might take?What is the shortest immigration process to bring wife in US?
    if u r married you have to file form I-130 relative petition. the cost is $355.00 us dls and depends where she is from thats the time frame, you have to fill out an affidavit of support to proof u can take care of her money wise, or even some body else can do it and be her sponsor, but in an easy and smooth tramit it will take from 3 to six months! good luck!What is the shortest immigration process to bring wife in US?
    You guys might find it helpful to read up on the whole process. There is a lot of paperwork involved. I believe it can be done without hiring a lawyer, however, if you can afford it talk to an attorney. There is more than one way to do this, I believe, through a US consulate or by filing the paperwork here in the US. However, my friend and his wife went thru the process awhile back. The hired a lawyer and it worked out fine.
    Your wife has to go to the us consulate in her home state and apply for an immigration visa.you can help by sending sponser papers that she can take when she apply's.If she has no crimminal record it should not take more then three month depending what country she is in and if there is a quota.
    You need to apply for her spousal visa and prove you have sufficient income and assets to support her and guarantee a $30,000 bond. It would have been faster if you had applied for a fiance visa, which usually takes about a year to obtain. A spousal visa is often taking 2 to 2-1/2 years now. She cannot come to the US while the application is pending. You will have to go visit her in her country.
    Go to http://www.visajourney.com for free guides and support. You have a choice about how to file. The time it takes will depend on where you live and what country she lives in. Some visas can take less than a year while some can take over 2 years. There are so many variables.
    CR1/IR1 Spouse immigrant visa or K3 Spouse nonimmigrant visa.


    The wait time depends on the US Embassy of your spouse's country.





    http://travel.state.gov/visa/immigrants/鈥?/a>


    http://www.visajourney.com/forums/

    How do I cook something for my lovely wife?

    Are there any Filipino people out there who know how to make Sans Rival? I want to make it for my beautiful wife. I know that it is not easy!How do I cook something for my lovely wife?
    Sans Rival a very yummy layered dessert. Each layer is topped with a nice amount of icing like filling and cashews on top. This recipe is definitely for cashew lovers out there!





    INGREDIENTS


    12 egg whites


    2 cups white sugar


    1 teaspoon cream of tartar


    2 cups chopped cashews, toasted





    1 pound butter, softened


    12 egg yolks


    2 cups white sugar


    1 cup water


    2 tablespoons dark rum





    2 cups chopped cashews, toasted








    DIRECTIONS





    Preheat oven to 300 degrees F (150 degrees C). Line 4 - 8x12 inch pans with parchment paper.





    In a large glass or metal mixing bowl, beat egg whites until foamy. Sprinkle with cream of tartar. Gradually add 2 cups white sugar, continuing to beat until stiff peaks form. Fold in 2 cups chopped nuts. Divide meringue between the 4 pans, and spread evenly to edges.





    Bake in preheated oven for 30 minutes, or until light golden brown. Remove the meringue from the baking pans while still hot; allow to cool. When cool, trim edges so that all 4 meringue layers are uniformly shaped. Set aside.





    To make buttercream filling: In a large bowl, Beat butter until light and fluffy. In a separate large bowl, whip egg yolks until thick and lemon colored.





    Meanwhile, in a saucepan, combine 2 cups sugar and 1 cup water. Bring to a boil, and heat to 270 to 290 degrees F (132 to 143 degrees C), or until a small amount of syrup dropped into cold water forms hard but pliable threads. Add the hot syrup in a thin stream to the beaten egg yolks, while beating at high speed. Beat in the whipped butter until smooth. Beat in rum.





    On one layer of meringue, spread approximately 1/4 of the buttercream evenly to edges. Repeat layers until all is used.





    Smooth sides with spatula. Sprinkle top with 2 cups chopped cashews. Freeze until solid. To serve, cut 1 inch slices from the frozen dessert.





    Note:


    Almonds or hazelnuts can be used in this recipe instead of cashews, and the buttercream can be flavored with any flavor of liqueur, coffee powder, or fruit jam.How do I cook something for my lovely wife?
    good luck! :)

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    Try searching the internet for some nice food
    What is she doing out of the kitchen in the first place??