How often should I do something nice for my wife?How often should I do something nice for my wife?
At least once a month. When was the last time she did something nice for you? Do you take it for granted?How often should I do something nice for my wife?
It sounds like you want to do something really nice to make-up for the other times. I agree that you need to do little things that add up daily, but if she doesn't appreciate anything, there is something wrong there. I love anything my husband does for me even if it's laundry or cooking so I can take a break. Take her out to eat and talk with her about the issue of gift giving. My husband loves the fact that for Valentine's, I want to each give each other a card and then go in on something nice together (1-800-Flowers). We also go on a shopping spree together for Christmas and it's so much fun. We only buy what we truly want and don't waste any money.
i can understand how you feel. she should continue to show her appreciation to you. Maybe you could explain to her how you feel. It may be hard for her to understand but maybe you could say that just like she need to be continually told how good of a wife she is and a hard worker (just an example) you need to be shown appreciation for the sweet things that you do for her. being a girl i think i would like it more than once in a blue moon. even if it was once a month.
As often as you can. I'm not saying it should all be material (not so!!). Sure, flowers every once in awhile are nice, but women need more than gifts. Yeah, doing the dishes every once in awhile is FANTASTIC! But many women do not come to expect this. :)
The main thing you should do (and the nicest of all) is to always tell her you love her, give her your support and your ears.
Define nice. You can do small things every day that are ';nice'; and it doesn't put you out all that much. Try do do at least one little thing for her every day, if not a few, plan some big ones every couple weeks and look for times to do nice things for her on the spot.
I think maybe once a week because if you do it everyday eventually it will not be appreciated since she'll expect it. But, if you do it weekly or biweekly it will always be a nice thing.and she would appreciate it even more.
besides working to bring home the money that pays the mortgage, food bills, heat/ac, electric, vehicles. oh yeah, and helping the kids with their homework, baths, and bedtime stories so she can relax.
as often as she does nice things for you +1.
never, they won't appreciate it anyway. Every time I tried to be nice, I was always told in so many ways that it wasn't good enough. SO I QUIT. It's just another way to get an argument started and get your ego slammed.
Womens mental process is a laugh.
As often as you can. I would say daily. It doesn't have to be big each time. Leave a post-it on the mirror saying you love her etc...... Be creative and have fun with it.
you don't have to try to do something nice. Even cleaning the house for her or helping her in anything is doing something nice.
Depends on you. I would do it as often as you feel. There are not set rules of how often. If she has done something extra for you, then thank her.
How about taking the ';Love dare'; a 40 day Challenge?
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Every day. She should be nice to you every day too. It doesn't have to be a big event.
Edited to add: Eg. my husband already got a ';nice'; point this morning by handing me my towel over the top of the shower door so I could dry off where it was warm. That took all of 5 seconds.
Once a day. Every day. All day long.
3 times a year...Christmas, Birthday, %26amp; Valentines Day.
I would concentrate more on being nice to her rather than doing things nice for her.
everyday...best way to keep peace in your home!
everyday, if you want a happy marriage
Keep doing what your doing. to much seems like a coverup type thing but once in a blue moon keeps them on their toes.
just do one of her jobs for her so she doesn't have to do it like the laundry
well I see what your problem is here...you spoiled her...my bf think hes done the same with me...because when we first started going out he used to do all kinds of romatic things and took me out to really nice places..then it slowed down and it made me supicious..like i thought he was loosing interest in the relatioship..but I changed too i think nag a little bit and complain or talk more open about his mistakes which i never did when we started going out...(like he used to be perfect)
But we know we both changed but our love hasnt and it gets stronger every year...so we would go out to dinner like everyfriday...or if im feeling sad or bored he would do somehting special for me..like bring flowers and things like that...romance should always be alive and you should try to do nice things for each other all the time...even the little things count..maybe have a talk with her and let her know that you love her, if you dont do a lot of nice things for her isnt because you dont love her, but tell her its because you want it to be special...
im sure if you explain she'll be happy to know how you feel..
good luck, and i think you are a good husband for making the effort.
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