How do I get my wife to have sex with me for the first time?

My wife and I have a great relationship. The only problem is... we havent had sex yet. We got married in march of 2008 and never got to go on a honeymoon or anything. When I ask her about it, she pretends like shes sleeping... I'm really bad at confrontation so I need a little help.How do I get my wife to have sex with me for the first time?
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Wow, uhm, marriage fail much?
Got married in 2008 and still have never had sex? Wow!





Possibilities:





1.)She thinks sex is ';dirty'; or ';bad'; due to upbringing or religious beliefs


2.)She's never had it before and is terrified


3.)An affair w/another man


4.)She's a lesbian


5.)She's having to please herself too much.





The only way you're going to get answers though is to just talk to her, she's your wife. If that doesn't work, then try marital counseling. If that doesn't work, you may be able to seek an annulment as the marriage has never been consummated. Good luck!
is she a virgin? she could be scared of the entire act or maybe shes afraid that she wont please you.--you may want to sit down and talk to her about it.





be extremely patient...


pamper her...get some massage oil(preferably edibleor warming to the touch), condoms (in case shes scared of being pregnant), candles, treat her to a sensual massage..do this without expecting anything to happen, just do it because you love her.





i know that its gonna be hard for you to say the least, cuz i know ur anticipating this.





once she is completely relaxed ..you may want to try some oral action downstairs.





this isnt a guarantee but its a good start.
Congratulations!


Keep it up, bro!
You could put down the xbox controller.
ARE YOU F********** kidding me? You've been married almost 2 years and haven't ';Consummated'; the marriage yet? Due WTF is wrong with her? Tell he she needs to put out or get the F*** out.
It isn't raped if you are married. It is the part of the vows they cut out over time but still counts.
its over a year now you guys are married and still no sex???
Are you serious?


I can't believe you are such a wimp. How about you start watching porn on tv in the bedroom while she is pretending to sleep? That should get her attention and if she objects just say you're not getting it from her so you have to watch other people doing it.


Alternatively you could have the marriage annulled because of non-consummation. Not even a divorce. Or threaten it anyway.


The lack of honeymoon is irrelevant. Lots of newly-weds don't have a honeymoon.
Gosh! i already told you like 30 times that I am never, NEVER going to have sex with you.


You're disgusting, you don't turn me on, you make me puke, but your bank account doesn't and that's why I married you. Stop being a wimp and go watch some porn, get a doll or something.





Where in the marriage papers said that I had to sleep with you?





And don't think that I'm a bitter and horny woman, your best friend makes me vibrate like that one vibrating Venus razor.
Bribe her with diamonds!!
Wow.





You guys skipped to how it is when you have kids, without ever bothering to have kids!!!
I agree with Candace, but there may be more than that. There has to be more than just that going on. You should do your best to talk to her, and when you are in the mood, do your best to be sweet, and cater to her and make her feel good and turn her on. Good luck!
no wonder you molested your male roommate perhaps you should go to marriage counseling you diffently need it.